Third Chapter
And what else did we do in the course?
On the
second day of the course, we arrive early at the university. In the yard, some
of the participants are already greeting us with a smile; in "Shalom"
(peace) in Hebrew (because we learned them a few words in Hebrew last night and
so we do every day during the two weeks of the course).
Yesterday,
before we were going to the hotel, we asked two volunteers to tell a short
story about success in their work. Dr. Boza told us a fascinating story. Dr/ Boza spent a
few years in the province of Brazil. There, a veteran teacher watched him and
saw that the young teacher was suffering from severe discipline problems. At
the end of the class, he offered to teach him some rules to help him become a
good teacher:
1. Get to
know your students well
2. Try to
understand the students
3. Don't
conduct a monologue - Have a dialogue with the students
4. Learn
so that there is a constant connection between lessons
5. Love
your students to join you in the learning process
6. Learn
and teach - The teacher learns from his students and students from the teacher
7.
Constant dialogue - formal and informal
After the
acquaintance activities, we did with the participants yesterday and after the
morning story of Dr. Boza, we start with some theory on 'Expanding the concept
of learning'. The first days of every course of study are the most exhausting
because one must pass the hurdle of first acquaintance, of mutual trust, of
cooperation, something that every teacher or lecturer is well acquainted with.
Now the people are attentive, cooperating, asking questions.
Later
this morning, we address the comments of the participants about the syllabus
that was shared last night. The participants asked that we go deeper into the
subject of supervision. It turns out that the state has only supervision
"on paper", but in practice, almost "every man did that which was right in
his own eyes"[1] in the
various schools. (This was seen on our visits to the schools). The other topics
are acceptable to them and so we approach intensive work throughout the day.
A young
woman named Esther, who joins the course a little late, introduces herself as a
supervisor. There is an unpleasant noise in the room and we notice that the
group members are looking at Esther with a dismissive look. The woman is very
skinny and beautiful, has a pleasant and childish voice and she quickly
overcomes the cool reception and presents herself and her expectations of the
course. Towards the end of the course, she takes us to one of the schools under
her supervision. (It was a hard and interesting experience to be told in the
chapter on educational institutions).
The cycle
of development:
The cycle
of development, which members of my Institute know orally, I pass through a
laptop and a screen (a wonderful surprise ...) But this time, after presenting
the cycle, we divide them into small groups to discuss the questions: In which
station do I least visit? In the plenary, we repeatedly find that human beings
are alike and it doesn't matter if they live in Europe, Asia or Africa.
Here,
too, most of the participants do not visit the stations of satisfaction,
comfort, and thought of the act.
When I present the keys offered by Clarkson (the researcher) a fascinating dialogue is held with the participants. Felisa and I feel that we can stay awhile at the satisfaction and relaxation station and hence move on to the next few days for the better.
Responsibility,
capability, and feedback in education
One of the fascinating issues in this kind of education is our responsibility and ability as educators. The entire world is astonished at the opacity of the United States of America toward the population of New Orleans. Here is exactly the place to make it clear that responsibility is not equivalent to the concept of guilt but exactly: I will do my best! Residents in Africa frequently ask the Western world: Is anyone doing their best to help them out of the misery of daily life?
One of the tools that served us well last year on the island of Sao Tome, and continues to serve us here in Angola, is the feedback. The feedback is such a wonderful tool in such short training. It teaches us about the atmosphere, serves as a measure of satisfaction, a source for comments, enlightenments, and requests for continuation. Every day, in the afternoon, as we prepare for the next day, this feedbacks are a wonderful barometer and compass for continuing the course. We discuss how to stick to our original plan or make changes based on what we learn from the feedback.
Feedback,
gentlemen, feedback
At the
end of each day, we ask for feedback from the participants. To that end, we
have prepared a very wide variety of forms of feedback. Written feedback such
as: Write with what you came the course this morning and how did you get out at
the end of the day?
Drawing
of a backpack and trash can – what do you take with you and what you want to
throw in the trash. (Incidentally, one of our metrics for the success of this
course was this feedback. People said they had nothing to throw in the garbage
can).
Oral
Feedback: A word for the end of the day, Felisa gives candy to everyone and
asks for one good word.
Later in
the first week and the second week, the participants give each other feedback.
Working in groups allows for a variety of observations-related activities to be
conducted on schools, creative work in the classroom, and so on.
The
participants are full of admiration for the openness that enables feedback. The
fact that we approach the feedback given the day before is another lesson for
them. It is a tool that can be used for everyday work with the university
students and the students they will teach in the future.
The
climax of the feedback was held the day before the course ended when the
students were divided into working groups and each group wrote a
"certificate" for the course. The certificate had to take into
account the physical, organizational aspects of the course and the program
aspects and the level of course offerings. This feedback activity is most
exciting, as it is a kind of mirror that stands in front of us and reflects our
work.
And on
the evening of the day...
We feel
great satisfaction from the work. Our ability to work as a duo allows this
feeling. Each one knows her strong parts and that of her friend and we direct
the course plan so that we get the best out of each other and from our
togetherness. The people in the group feel this connection and are treated with
great appreciation.
In the
evenings, in the lobby of the hotel, we have engaging conversations with
participants who wanted to meet us. Most of them are all asking for advice and
ideas on how to improve the education system in their country. We are happy for
these meetings that fill our evenings and clear away the sense of closure we
are in.
Vera, the
only white woman in the course invites us to her house for dinner. Her husband
is a mixed Angolan, a very pleasant and handsome man who tells us fascinating
stories about the status of women in Angola. Apparently, in this country, there
are quite a few women who are married to two men and who decide with whom she
will spend the night... Something we know from the other side of the barricade.
Next
time: A visit to the educational institutions (continue of the third chapter).
תגובה 1:
נפגעתי ושבורת לב כשבעיה גדולה מאוד קרתה בנישואים שלי לפני 7 חודשים, ביני לבין בעלי. כל כך נורא שהוא לקח את התיק לבית המשפט לגירושין. הוא אמר שהוא לעולם לא רוצה להיות איתי שוב ושהוא לא אוהב אותי יותר. אז הוא ארז מהבית וגרם לי ולילדים שלי לעבור הרבה כאב. ניסיתי כל דרך אפשרית להחזיר אותו, אחרי הרבה תחנונים, אבל הכל ללא הועיל. והוא אישר שהוא קיבל את ההחלטה שלו, ושהוא לא רצה לראות אותי שוב. וכך ערב אחד, כשחזרתי מהעבודה, פגשתי את חברתי הוותיקה שחיפשה את בעלי. אז הסברתי לו את כל הדברים, והוא אמר לי שהדרך היחידה להחזיר את בעלי היא לבקר קוסם בשביל לחש, כי זה באמת עבד גם בשבילו. אז אף פעם לא האמנתי בקסם, אבל לא הייתה לי ברירה אלא למלא אחר עצתו. לאחר מכן הוא נתן לי את כתובת האימייל של מטיל הכישוף שהוא ביקר. (drapata4@gmail.com) אז למחרת בבוקר שלחתי דואר לכתובת שהוא נתן לי, והקוסם הבטיח לי שאקבל בעל תוך שלושה ימים. איזו אמירה מדהימה!! אף פעם לא האמנתי, אז הוא דיבר איתי ואמר לי כל מה שאני צריך לעשות. ואז יומיים, באופן כל כך מפתיע, בעלי שלא התקשר אליי ב-7 החודשים האחרונים התקשר אליי להודיע לי שהוא חוזר. כל כך מדהים!! אז הוא חזר באותו יום, עם הרבה אהבה ושמחה, והתנצל על טעותו ועל הכאב שהוא גרם לי ולילדיי. ואז מאותו יום, הקשר שלנו היה עכשיו חזק יותר ממה שהיה קודם, בעזרת הגלגל. לכן, אני אמליץ לך, אם יש לך בעיות, צור קשר עם DR APATA, אתה יכול גם להגיע אליו באמצעות gmail: (drapata4@gmail.com) או באמצעות WhatsApp או Viber בכתובת: (+22958359273).
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